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You
wouldn’t expect a chirpy cockney child carer to
succeed where everyone from Oasis and Robbie Williams
to North Korea and the former Soviet Union have failed,
but that’s exactly what Jo Frost did when she
conquered America. Frost, who is the Supernanny on Channel
4’s eponymous smash hit reality show, has filmed
a US version of the series which has aired to universal
acclaim on network television Stateside, and had her
childcare book go straight to number one in the New
York Times bestseller lists. Yet little more than a
year ago, Frost was an unknown, just one of the dedicated
army of nannies working with other people’s children.
The change is enough to make a girl’s head spin,
even when the head is on a pair of shoulders as sensible
as Frost’s.
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“I knew Supernanny would touch a nerve when
the UK series went out in July of last year. I knew
it would create some sort of interest, but for it to
have done so well that it’s reached America? No,
I never anticipated anything like that. Definitely not
– I’m a nanny, not a fortune teller. And
then the reception in America was absolutely amazing.
They’ve been really warm, really embraced me.
They’ve taken it all to heart, it’s just
been astonishing.”
Frost is clearly not content to rest on her laurels,
though. As she made a second series that started in
April. The concept of the each programme is simple:
Frost spends three weeks with a family that is struggling
with problematic behaviour from one or more children,
at the end of which, the problem will be solved. It
sounds too good to be true, yet the first series saw
Frost literally revolutionise people’s lives almost
overnight, turning little horrors into angelic creatures
in the process. It seems she has not lost her touch.
“I spoke to a family recently who had just seen
their programme, and they said that 50 minutes did not
even begin to represent how much their lives have changed.
I thought that was fantastic, really overwhelming.”
That the accolade comes from one of her American families
shows that her skills translate perfectly to the other
side of the Atlantic. Did she notice a difference between
approaches to child-rearing in Britain and the US? “No,
there’s no big difference. Children are children
and parents are parents the world over. What I did notice
is that the Americans have a very high regard for the
British nanny, and the standards and the etiquette that
we have. That’s very much respected over there,
added to which, of course, they love the accent.”
They may love the accent, but Frost’s connection
with the American viewers went deeper than that. After
all, you don’t get a number one bestselling book
on the back of having a British accent. It’s an
achievement of which she is justifiably proud. “I
didn’t actually write it, I dictated it over the
phone. I spent over 70 hours on the phone. They wanted
the book to come out on a certain date, so we had a
deadline. But I was busy filming the American programme,
so I told them I couldn’t physically write everything
down and film. So they arranged for a lady to touch
type it while I spoke. And then I got proofs back to
correct and approve. I was very particular about what
was written in the book. It wasn’t a problem for
me though – I can talk the hind legs off a donkey,
so 70 hours on the phone was easy.”
She says this new series will broadly stick to the same
formula as the first, but with certain significant differences.
“I’m dealing with older children as well
as the younger ones this time. And families as a whole
will be under the microscope a little bit more. It’ll
show the folds of family life. It’s not just about
a child’s behaviour; there are certain elements
in a family dynamic that can have an impact on the kids
and the parents. We still deal with socially unacceptable
behaviour, but we also deal with emotions in parents.
“For example, in this series, one mother has real
problems with her anger, and we look at how that affects
the kids. And we’ll use new techniques in each
programme, so that every one will be different and informative.
You have to use different techniques a lot of the time
anyway, for different issues and problems. And also
different techniques apply to different ages. I wouldn’t
put a 12-year-old on the naughty step. And it’s
about more than age – all children are different,
their temperaments are different. But if people want
to see kids behaving badly, they certainly won’t
be disappointed. There’s plenty more tantrums.
I don’t want to give too much away, but there
are some real characters in this series.”
Does she find it difficult, being parachuted into homes,
getting close to the family, and then leaving again
after only three weeks? “Well, I keep in touch
with them. And each family is given my number, so they
can always call me if they want to. But yeah, of course
I miss them. You go through an emotional journey with
each family. Each one touches you in their own way.”
Does she feel there are any cases where she has been
unable to help? “I think I can always help in
some way. Whether it’s a small change or a big
change, immediate change or gradual change, it’s
change.”
Changing people’s lives, enjoying an ever higher
profile on both sides of the Atlantic, and with two
hit TV series’ and a bestselling book under her
belt: It’s been quite a year for Jo Frost. She
says her life has changed in lots of ways, but more
significantly, so have the lives of the families she
has helped. And that, more than fame or fortune, is
the legacy that Frost is intent on leaving behind. “If
I can help families through their difficulties, then
I’m happy.”
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